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Douching is optional. You do not owe a partner a perfectly rinsed body, and anal sex can involve a little stool even after careful preparation. If you choose to rinse, the goal is a small, gentle clean-out of the rectum. Trying to flush your whole bowel can turn a quickContinue Reading

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Silver in the Wood by Emily Tesh The Bruising of Qilwa by Naseem Jamnia The Mystery of the Bitten Peach by Cecilia Tan But Not Too Bold by Hache Pueyo Stone and Steel by Eboni Dunbar Bonus: For novella series, check out The Singing Hills Cycle by Nghi Vo and Sworn Soldier byContinue Reading

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Oregon Gov. Tina Kotek won a second term, beating Republican state Sen. Christine Drazan for the second time in four years. The Associated Press called the race for the Democrat early Wednesday. Kotek declared victory before the AP call, at the Democratic Party of Oregon’s election night watch party atContinue Reading

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Vermont Proposal 4 passed Tuesday, Nov. 3, adding explicit LGBTQ+ equality protections to the state constitution. The Associated Press called the result just after 11 p.m. Eastern, Vermont Public reported. The amendment bars the state from denying equal treatment based on sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. It buildsContinue Reading

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Democrat J.D. Ford unseated Republican Rep. Victoria Spartz in Indiana’s 5th Congressional District, the Associated Press declared. The two-term state senator from Indianapolis will become Indiana’s first openly LGBTQ+ member of Congress, according to LGBTQ+ Victory Fund. He defeated a three-term Republican in a district that favored the GOP headingContinue Reading

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The hanky code is a system of colored bandanas worn in a back pocket to signal sexual interests. The color names the activity, and the pocket names the role: left usually means top or active, right usually means bottom or passive. It took off in 1970s gay leather bars andContinue Reading